Losing Someone To Breast Cancer – The 5 Stages Of Grief

By Wild Ginger

Losing Someone To Breast Cancer – The 5 Stages Of Grief

October 28th, 2020 at 4:17 pm

When we lose someone we love, it is natural for us to grieve. The grieving process is how we deal with loss – the more significant the loss, the more intense the grief may be.

In many ways, grief can manifest and have an effect on your overall wellbeing, from mental to physical health. You may also experience a number of emotions, such as anger and guilt – not just sadness.

There are usually five stages of grief that end with acceptance. The Mind Faculty explains these below:

  1. Denial

This is actually a coping mechanism – it helps us process news that is too difficult to handle, and can make us feel like someone else is going through the tragedy.

  1. Anger

“What did my loved one do to deserve this?” “Why is this happening to me?” During this time, when feelings of loss feel the most painful, these thoughts are normal.
Anger is a natural reaction to injustice, and when we feel scared, it is also a way to protect ourselves.

  1. Bargaining

You could find yourself thinking, “If only I had done this” or “Is this part of a master plan?”
when trying to make sense of what has happened. Confusion, longing and desperation can accompany this.

  1. Depression

When the news starts to settle in, and you finally start to accept your new reality, you may find that grief arrives in waves of distress or sadness.

  1. Acceptance

The last stage – when you’re to start rebuilding your life without your loved one in it.

It is important to know that grief is not linear – you may find yourself moving two steps forward, only to have something set you back five steps. Not everyone will go through these stage, some may even merge with each other: anger mixed with bargaining, sadness mixed with acceptance. Remember – everybody grieves differently and at their own pace.

If you need professional help when grieving, you can find out more about The Mind Faculty’s services here.

 

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